Everything means nothing
We just had a wedding coverage yesterday. It was really fun working with the couple. Then here goes my favorite part: During the mass where the priest is talking. He said that you must love one another even if thats her or his good/bad side. It made me think. I guess its not applicable to everybody anymore. Most of the people today will only love/like you if you’re doing something really good to them. And this is 98% TRUE. But if you did something horrible or bad, they will simply hate you for that and everything boils down to ANGER.
I saw the movie ONE MORE CHANCE. I am not really into pinoy movies but this one really freaked me out. I’ve learned so many things from it. One of them is never pressure your partner to do what you want. Instead, ask her what she wants. Another thing is, women are so weak unlike men. The “LOVE” that they keep on telling us can be gone in just a SNAP. Now thats what we call horrible. They tend to forget everything even to the point where in the 90% thing that you’ve done well for them will be gone. And now thats another horrible thing.
Bottomline, you can’t love a person who can’t love you back because of your weaknesses. ‘Nuff said.
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chris, always remember that acceptance is one of the key in keeping a long term or lifetime relationship. women may seem to be weak a lot of times in a relationship but men has the tendency too.
well as for me, i still believe that “real love” is seeing the imperfections of another and despite such imperfections, you feel that you still want to be with that person for the rest of your life. In this life, there is no guarantee of permanence. But what is important is that at least once in our lives, we took the risks that we’ll never regret at all. Bear in mind that it is better to regret the things that we did rather than the things we did not.
Very well said. You just said it right, cris… “real love” is seeing the imperfections of another and despite such imperfections, you feel that you still want to be with that person for the rest of your life… that’s sincere love! i totally agree!
…and about, The “LOVE” that they keep on telling us can be gone in just a SNAP. They tend to forget everything even to the point where in the 90% thing that you’ve done well for them will be gone. Bottomline, you can’t love a a person who can’t love you back because of your weaknesses. NOPE! bottomline, he/she is just fooling around and just find the right time to get rid of you… coz no “real love” can just be wiped out in a blink of an eye. You’ve been fooled and you just need to sink it in you that all he/she showed were just not genuine.
and recently, there’s this another movie..
a very special love, sounds mushy but i think it’s a cute one.
i know you’re ready to do your sundance with the one you love padre even in the rain!
hehehe..
about your blog, hey!
it’s not only women who are weak, excuse me. (taray)
men are also weak. isn’t it true?
you just try to hide what you guys are feeling because of a thing called pride, i guess.
for a relationship to work out, the two persons involve must have a “give and take” kind of relationship. the issue is not who did a certain fault, but what the two of you can do about that fault, i guess that matters most.
and another thing, i also agree with you that you can’t love a person who can’t love you back because of your weaknesses, because it is only in this weaknesses that you are saying, that you can really know who’s real and who’s not.
nothing much, nakiepal lang ako, hehehe.
* these weaknesses (typo error)
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